I think it all depends on what, when, who & where..
For instance - If I am fishing locally with the son in law, he is the deckie and when we gat back we share a beer ( 1 each, not half a can) while cleaning the boat.
A weekend away with the mates - I bring the boat and they pay for fuel & bait. When we get back - I wash the boat.
If its just me and the wife, she backs the trailer and I do everything else - but having a wife that can back the trailer is great.
And as was said earlier, enjoy the experience regardless.....